The In-Laws

  I really enjoyed reading the chapter 37 creating healthy ties with in-laws and extended family. I believe that is very important for spouses especially newlyweds to focus on each other, but also respecting each other's parents. I really enjoyed the scriptures of Genesis 2:24 therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife I enjoy reading this picture because it shows how important it is for new spouses and spouses to Cleveland to each other. Like how it says in the ribbon from the definition of the "Oxford English Dictionary defines cleaving as" to remain attached devoted or faithful to "and "to remain steadfast". I think it's such a beautiful definition. When I hear leaving I thought also up holding onto and not letting go. What president Spencer W Kimball was very important and show how important the relationship of family is in a marriage." First married children should confess in an console with their spouse. Second if possible they should establish their own household, separated from their parents. finally any counsel from outside sources should be considered prey fully by both spouse together. I thought that was very important to pray together as spouse if you have outside resources because it helps you understand if it's the right thing for you or not when you pray together Heavenly Father will bless who are seeking answers. That best suit you. I also enjoy to know how important it is to have peace upon your in-laws and family members. I feel that is very important because they are your spouse's parents. Even though I do not live close to my in-laws I still have respect for them and thank them for what they do to help my family be blessed.  It helps me to be a future better mother-in-law for my children. We also have to be patient with mother-in-laws because they are mothers of their children and we can see how much they love this children but also let them know how much you love them too so they can feel love from the person that married their the mom children.

The role of mother and Father

  I really like to talk about who is the boss. I agree with the talk the parents are the leader of the family. We are at the example for our children. I like the quote from president Spencer W Kimball" discipline is probably one of the most important element in which the mother and the father can lead and guide and direct their children..... setting limits to what a child can do means to the child that you love him and respect him.... if you permit the shout to do all the things he would like to do without any limits that means to him that you do not care much about him." I so agree with President Spencer W Kimball says I know of someone that their parents didn't have any control over the child and let the shell do whatever he wanted so he didn't really have that much respect for his parents. Me and my husband agree to be a team when we set rules for our children. I believe I said parent we are to guide our children in the way that they can grow up knowing what's right and wrong. And by us telling our son don't do that don't do this I feel that it helps him to know that we're there to help them to be guided the right way since he is just two years old. I believe when he gets older that he will have his own ways of making choices but that he know that me and his father taught him when he was little what is right and what is wrong. We wanted to use free agency but in a way that doesn't let him to do whatever he wants to do and to understand what there are consequences if you do the things that you shouldn't be doing. That is something my father taught me. He said you make your choice but then if you make a wrong choice you will pay the consequences of that choice. So that make me have freedom but I also know that if I choose to do something that I know it's not right that I will pay the consequences and I will disappoint him. So yes I believe that parents should be there cutting their children even if you say no a lot when they're little it's okay.