Mommy Rosa Says
Family
The In-Laws
The role of mother and Father
Thinking that our Friends or are Core- workers are better than our spouse
Your spouse imperfection
charity
what is love
This week I learned about the law of consecration. what is the low if consecration ? " The liw of commandment in the Latter Day Saint movement in which adherents promise to dedicate their lives and material substance to the church. It was first referred to in 1831 by Joseph Smith and today is practiced to different extents by members of the various Latter Day Saint sects." It also has a great explanation it in the book from Goddard drawing Heaven into Universe. with was a learning experience for me. I never thought that the law of consecration could be apply it in our marriage. As I read the chapter 6 Goddard I received a humbling experience, I know have a better understanding of the law of consecration in marriage. I like this quote “marriage provides glorious opportunity to practice consecration. Just as I sick was willing to give his life as the ultimate exoresion of commitment to God, so we are invited to dedicate our lives, our talents, our weekends, and our weakness to the sacred enterpris sacrificing our marriage and ultimate perfecting our souls". When I read it my soul was full and I feel sad because I never saw it that way, never thought that loving and caring and serving is the way that help us understand more about the law of consecration. This chapter made me feel to be a better person not just in my marriage but all around. I also learned that it is very important to forgive are spouse, so as we are able to forgive them, our hearts will be full of love and caring not hatred and anger. I also learned that the law and consecration it is the law of our Heavenly Father. I'm thankful for this week's lesson I learned a lot. I also was more impressed and ever of the story of Abraham and Isaac just I have heard the story about Abraham and Isaac and it never really hit me the way I read it in the book. The pure love that Isaac had for God was so impressive. He's had a humble heart. I told my husband to read this part of the book and he was so sad also and cried because he feels something he said I don't think I can ever do that to my son. I thought the same. But the obedience that Abraham had for our God. It's a great example for us to learn that we are to give all we have to our Heavenly Father that is to have a broken heart and a contrite spirit.
Humble yourself
In my relationship with my spouse I feel like I was right and he was wrong. I never knew the importance of humbling yourself. As I've been studying in class I have realized that it's okay to be wrong. And it's okay to humble yourself. I thought by humbly myself my husband would take advantage of me. But I was so wrong, it caused me to be a better and unloving person. One thing I learned is that we shouldn't be picky of the imperfection that are spouses have. But we can work together to make it better.. the book that I pretty much learned a lot was drawing Heaven into your marriage by Goddard. One quote that I like about chapter 4 was " God will have bumble people. Either we can choose to be humble or we can be compelled to be humble. And that was very powerful. I also learned that I being sarcastic it is a way of pride. And also but I just not talking to your spouse and giving him the cold shoulder, is also a prideful because you're not given an opportunity for him to express his point of view. This book has had a great influence in my marriage it's been helping me and my husband to grow together and being able to see ways that we can't not be prideful and push away each other.
Turning Towards Your Paether,
Having fun getting to know your spouse
How to better your marriage
So how can we do that first thing first what I learned this week was very important for me. To have a great friendship with your spouse. When they said merry is hard yes it is challenging yes things do come up in a marriage. But the most important is to know your spouse pretty well. I learned by reading the seven principles of making your marriage work was important key that I didn't realize how important it is and what I learned is that your husband or wife should be your best friend. That means have a very close relationship and knowing all you can know about your spouse. Dr.Gottman " that happy marriage are based on a deep friendship. By this I mean a mutual respect for the enjoyment of each other company" and that is what I'm working in my own marriage to become best friends with my own husband since I didn't have enough time to get to know him it's been really rough. But there is no giving up.
What a blessing it is to have a temple marriage.
I had a great opportunity to understand the difference between a covenant marriage and a civil marriage. When you are married and you have made a covenant of being with your spouse for time and all eternity that means you're with your spouse for the rest of your life and Beyond Death. When you marry and the when you married civilly your marriage ends on Earth like it says, two to death do us part.
I'm thankful for the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. I'm thankful for the temples. Because we have the temples were able to get married to our spots for time and all eternity and bless our family to be with us for the rest of our eternities. we make a covenant when we on the temple with our spouse. and as such a beautiful Covenant. My husband had a good talk today about the importance of a covenant marriage and a civil marriage. he said you work hard to make your marriage work because you just not made a contract you made a covenant. in the something you just throw away or just quit right away you work hard to make the marriage work. a contract you just rip it and throw it away like it's not a big deal. It's what keeps my husband to try to do the best we can to be a good husband and try to change his weaknesses to overcome them so he can be blessed to have his family for all the eternity. as I'm trying my best to to keep my family for time and all eternity. we're not perfect but we can try to be better each day.
protect Marriag
I also enjoy reading Elder Russell M Nelson disciple of Jesus Christ defender of marriage. I really like this part what Elder Nelson Said there is great power in a strong partnership. “A true partnership can achieve more than the sum of each action alone." that really meant something to me that it, was engraved in my mind. And I realizing the important of having a partner that you can working together. To up sheave family goals. I also learned the importance of being a disciple, and how we can stand to defend marriage. I was happy to realize that I am trying to protect marriage, by trying to do the best I can in my marriage. Second helping my friends not to give up in her own marriage. I have talked to her and taught her what I have learned in class. Today was a good example she's not a member of the church, but she said that her husband does not drink. She was surprised of what I said. I told her that she should be proud that her husband that does not drink. I told that I hated seeing my parents drink and how it can ruin families, but how my father changed when I was 8th and he became a member of the church and he stopped to drink. And how that bless my family. She did not say anything but she was surprised that I said what I said.
Times are changing
The In-Laws
I really enjoyed reading the chapter 37 creating healthy ties with in-laws and extended family. I believe that is very important for spous...