Thinking that our Friends or are Core- workers are better than our spouse

I really enjoy reading the story about being Fideliny in marriage. What I have learned was that it is important to understand, that sometimes we can fall into a trap, thinking that our friends, or core workers. Are better than our spouse. I know because I compare my best friends to my husband. And I used to tell that to him that he's not like my best friend. I never realize  that was hurting my husband. I thought that that will motivate him to be like my friend. I didn't compare my husband with any of my coworkers. But as The Story Goes the wife was very in tune with her co-worker, then her own husband. Jane's sister was able to help her to realize what was going on with Jane's relationship with her husband. one thing that  I was grateful that my husband help me understand thing that my frend is not my husband. That your friend would just be your friend he's not married to you so things are not going to be the same if he was married to me. I was like okay. You don't know what you're talking about. Even though I didn't see my friend I always compare him because I had a great friendship with my best friend. And I never realize that even though I was not hanging out with and it affected my marriage. After I read the story I feel very bad and sad that it made me realize that my husband had a point and I was so wrong. What I have learned was that you can't change a person. But you can change yourself. And they will see your change and motivate them to change for themselves. I'm thankful that I read the story I apologize to my husband. And also made me realize how Satan works he works little by little until he has a hold of you cuz what he did with her. What the woman in in the story, little by little she was focusing on her co-worker rather than her husband. And she was pushing her husband away by the way she was acting towards them. So hopefully she was able to talk to the bishop and work things out with her husband.