Turning Towards Your Paether,

One of the sentences that I really liked on the book was "turning towards each other and building up their sense of trust". And I realize that is so true by turning towards each other a build such a great friendship that you will have a greater bondage and trusts towards your spouse. Is something that I realize that me and my husband need to work on as I was reading the book I told my husband can you please read this two pages. I was afraid that he was saying that right now I'm tired but he was willing to read it because he knew that I felt that it was important. When he read he smiled and start laughing and giggle. and it made me realize he knows what I'm trying to say and that is we need to work on this so we can be able to have a better relationship towards each other. When I asked him what he thought about it he just smiled. I told him that we needed this to help our relationship grow. And he agree. But that small simple act that he was willing to read the two pages make me happy. Because when I asked them he stopped what he was doing and gave me the full intention that I have not seen for a long time. I really am excited to work on the emotional bank account. We are excited to also try to go on a date without children so we can focus on the things that we need to work on. I have noticed a great big difference since we did the first activity and so I am excited to see the results of the second activity. Today my coworker was telling me that it's been really hard for her and her marriage and how she is just really to quit. I told her to what I learned. And I said to her did you do all that you could to save her marriage. And she replied no. I was excited to share some of the things I have learned this week. And the difference that has done in my marriage just by doing some of the activities from the book. I told her that I have been in that situation before but because I have been learning so much it has helped me to understand the important to fight for your marriage. And to see what you're struggling and how to build it stronger. And I told her the important of turning towards each as a couple. I told her about the story of the the brother from BYU Idaho that talked about turning towards another. How he change his perspective of doing things so I told her I was going to bring her the paper so she can read it. It only takes one person to make a difference.

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